Whether
you are planning to get into a relationship or are already in one, there are
certain things you got to remember if you want your relationship to last
long.For starters, being too clingy or needy is something you have to stay away
from, as this can eventually make your partner feel strangulated. And you
wouldn't want it, do you? If you are not too sure what to do and what to avoid
in a relationship, this list discussing healthy relationship vs toxic
relationship will come handy.
Read
on.
1.Honesty
and trust.
Healthy
Relationship:
The
partners trust each other and are honest about their opinions and feelings.
Toxic
Relationship:
Due
to a lack of trust, partners spy on each other and fear being cheated.
2.Success
and happiness.
Healthy
Relationship:
Partners
feel happy seeing the other succeed.
Toxic
Relationship:
Insecurity
and jealousy replace happiness.
3.Inevident
differences.
Healthy
Relationship:
Couples
in a healthy relationship accept and celebrate their differences.
Toxic
Relationship:
They
try to change each other and do not entertain any difference of opinions or
thoughts.
4.Decision-making.
Healthy
Relationship:
Both
the partners have equal decision-making power and take mutual decisions or
decisions that are in the best interest of both.
Toxic
Relationship:
One
tries to dominate and forces his/her opinion on the other person.
5.Privacy.
Healthy
Relationship:
Maintain
and respect each other's privacy.
Toxic
Relationship:
Sneak
into their partner's phone or social media accounts or talk about their
relationship and differences in public.
6.Being
real.
Healthy
Relationship:
Being
you, completely, in the company of your partner.
Toxic
Relationship:
Acting
differently in the presence of your partner and masking your true self.
7.Fights and conflicts.
Healthy
Relationship:
Resolving
fights and conflicts amicably and in a fair manner.
Toxic
Relationship:
Yelling,
dragging the matter unnecessarily, and blaming each other.
8.Maintaining identity.
Healthy
Relationship:
The
partners complement each other and are not dependent on one other.
Toxic
Relationship:
They
feel incomplete, under-confident and under-valued in the absence of their
partner.
9.Friendships and other
relationships.
Healthy
Relationship:
They
pursue their respective hobbies and other areas of interest and also let their
partner do the same.
Toxic
Relationship:
They
do only what their partner likes or enjoys.
10.
Apologizing.
Healthy
Relationship:
Ego
never takes precedence over relationships and hence apologizing doesn't take
much time.
Toxic
Relationship:
Ego
seems more important and nobody wants to apologize.
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