The best thing about a relation is that one
person who won't give up on you even at the darkest hour. Faith, trust and lots
of love are ingredients that make a healthy relationship. But a little spice
never harms. Instead, it makes it taste better!
Fights
and constructive arguments make it a so much better. Well, being in one makes
you embrace everything that comes with it, and that is the beauty of it.
But when
it comes to the guy vs. girls battle there is just no ultimatum. Since the
beginning of the time, the guys vs. girls battle has been the hot topic. The
battle is about everything and anything they can lay their hands on. And I am
sure that each and every one of us has been in such these arguments
many-a-times. It either turned in a huge fight or you had to
settle at a mid-point concluding that it is endless.
There is
a difference as to how a girl reacts to a relationship issue as to how a guys
react to it. We have phycological facts and majority opinion to our aid to
figure out things, at our end.
1:
Communication
She:
Women love to express.
They speak a lot, and they share stuff. Tough they never come to the problem
straight. They start with the background so that the depths of the problem are
easier to understand.
They conclude, something is wrong when you don't talk about your problems.
They see sharing problems as something that strengthens the relationship.
He:
Men are rather reserved.
They don't share easily. They believe that sharing problems that you can
single-handedly solve is a sign of weakness.
When they talk about it, they come straight to the point.
Sometimes when she is feeling a lot of things and talks about them, men get
confused. Seeing her troubles, they talk less about their problems.
Note: Psychologically speaking, feelings have a much more profound effect on
women than men, which sometimes men fail to understand.
2: Identifying oneself in a
relationship
She:
Girls
usually identify themselves in a relationship with the feelings it brings them.
Happiness to them is spending more time with you, talking, steal kisses and
cuddle.
Their sense of fulfillment comes when she can relate and share with you.
Their sense of fulfillment comes when she can relate and share with you.
For
him, love comes first always, but other things can't be ignored.
He loves you but to him identifying himself in a relationship is very different then how girls see it.
To him achievements and success in each and everything they do play a major role.
They are more analytical in their approach.
He loves you but to him identifying himself in a relationship is very different then how girls see it.
To him achievements and success in each and everything they do play a major role.
They are more analytical in their approach.
3: Money
She:
She
goes on shopping bouts very often, but trust me it's guys who care about money
more than her.
She is also considered more territorial, but then again-it's men.
She can live without money, but not without your trust and love.
She is also considered more territorial, but then again-it's men.
She can live without money, but not without your trust and love.
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